| Location | Penzance |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 29/10/2007 |
| Date of Death | 29/10/2007 |
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BABY CADE CLEMENCE
BORN SLEEPING 29 OCTOBER 2007
MUMMY = LEE-ANNE DADDY = NEIL BIG BROTHER = CODY
NANA = JOY AND ( ANGEL ) GRANDMA = SANDRA
TINY BABY CADE SPREAD YOUR WINGS
AND FLY UP HIGH WHERE ANGELS SING.
LET THEM CARE FOR YOU
WITH ENDLESS LOVE,
KEEP WATCH OVER US FROM UP ABOVE.
WATCH OVER MUMMY AND DADDY CODY AND NANA TOO
BECAUSE EACH OF US ARE HURTING FROM LOSING YOU.
LET US KNOW THAT YOU ARE THERE
LOVING US DEEPLY AND WATCHING WITH CARE.XX
Our time was far too brief;
It was over before it had chance to start...
But our little angel left behind
Footprints Across our Heart.
Our beautiful baby boy was born at home on monday 29th oct 2007 after a weekend from hell. Cade was
our second son and after our precious son cody was born premature at 29 weeks weighing just 2lb 9oz
and born with a number of ongoing health problems we were promised constant care and monitoring with
cades pregnancy. Something that we sadly never recieved. All the scans went well and his little
heartbeat was strong.
Then came saturday the 27th oct : I woke up early went to the toilet and started to bleed, so neil
rang the emergency midwife team and explained we were told NOT to panick just for me to have
complete bed rest for the rest of the day and they would phone the hospital and book an emergency
scan. As the day progressed the bleeding stopped but the pain increased. After several telephone
conversations with our midwife (fiona) i was told to stop panicking and just keep to bed rest. I was
so scared i was to scared to move, to afraid to go to the toilet incase the bleeding started again
all i could do was cry. Saturday was a long day.
On the sunday i still had some light spotting and the pain in my back and stomach had increased. We
rang the emergency team again and was told that an appointment had been made to have a scan done on
the tues morning at the hospital. We argued that tues was to long away to wait but was told there
was nothing they could do at the weekend and first thing monday i would be examined by my midwife
and if needed i would then be taken in. We weren't happy but there the professionals so who are we
to argue! Oh god i wish we'de argued!! All day sunday i was in discomfort like having bad period
pains the midwife said the most likely cause was wind. I never experienced labour with cody as he
was delivered by emergency c-section so i just assumed i was being a wimp and felt so guilty that i
was causing such a fuss over possible wind. So all day sunday i just grinned and beared it.
Then came Monday the worst day ever....
The midwife was due to visit at 9.00am to examine me but by 10.00 am still hadn't arrived so several
messages later she rings us to say she was running late and would be with us by 11.00 am. We waited
anxiously and the pains by now were getting worse and seemed more frequent. By lunch time she still
hadn't arrived and after ringing the surgery and complaining we rang the hospital only to be told to
calm down and wait for her to call. She finally turned up at 4.30 pm. 7 1/2 hours after she promised
to examine me.
She examined me and told me i was fine she repeated that my pain was caused by wind and examined
cade and said he was fine heartbeat good and he was moving. She said it was upto us whether to keep
the scan appointment the following morning which we said we wanted to just to see him and confirm he
was alright. She said all i needed to do was take 2 painkillers, a nice hot cup of tea and a warm
bath. She took neil to one side and said to keep me relaxed the scan would confirm what she had said
and i was panicking over nothing. She sent neil off to run me a bath i took 2 paracetamol and she
left. JOB DONE. I again felt like an idiot for wasting peoples time. And made apologies for behaving
like a wimp.
I then decided to have the bath. Wrong Decision..
I had only been in the bath a few minutes when the pain was to much to bear i called for neil and he
helped me out. It felt like i needed to empty my bowels. All of a sudden i was curled over the pain
so bad and it was as though someone had popped a water balloon inbetween my legs i thought i'd wet
myself i still didn't know what was happening. Then there was a huge tugging sensation like as if
someone was pulling my insides and there he was our beautiful son on the bathroom floor. I screamed
hysterically. Neil just kept saying my god its our baby lee he's not doing anything. I fell to the
floor and everything was pretty blurred after that. I can vaguely remember the paramedics arriving.
And i remember them wrapping baby cade in a blanket and placing him in my arms.
He stayed in my arms in the ambulance and we were given a private room when we arrived we spent a
short time with him when we arrived then they took him off to be examined, cleaned and dressed.
Whilst i was treated and given an injection to make me deliver the placenta. Then he was given back
to us and we spent a couple of hours just the three of us. We hugged him and kissed him and told him
all about his family.
When the doctors walked in to take him for his final examination we were told we wouldn't be able to
see him again after they examined. He would be taken straight to the morgue. So many thoughts
swamped my mind. I couldn't hand him over. How could i knowing that would be the last time i saw
him. Neil had to hand him to them. I could literally feel my heart break. We were offered a photo of
cade but because of the heat of the bathroom and then the ambulance and hospital air he had changed
colour and didn't look like he did at home. Neil and i discussed it but wanted to remember him how
he looked in our arms not how he looked at the end of it. I was given medication after they took him
so was too doped up to remember the rest of that night.
Baby cade was buried on nov 14th 2007 he had a wonderful send off with family and close friends
present. He had beautiful flowers and was blessed by the priest at the church. He had a tiny white
coffin which neil carried and was laid to rest with his grandma sandra (my mum). So we know he is
safe.
I never understood the saying " a broken heart " but mine has been broken twice once by my mum and
now my baby boy.
Thank you for taking the time to read our heartache and for your continued support it has given me
the strength to share this with you.
Your candles, tributes and pictures mean so much to us as a family.
XXXXXXXXXX THANK YOU ALL XXXXXXXXXX
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When tomorrow starts without me
And I'm not there to see;
If the sun should rise and find your eyes
All filled with tears for me;
I wish so much you wouldn't cry
The way you did today
While thinking of the many things
We didn't get to say.
I know how much you love me,
As much as I love you.
And each time that you think of me
I know you'll miss me too.
But when tomorrow starts without me
Please try to understand,
That an angel came and called my name
And took me by the hand.
Thank you for all your support through 2008.
Thinking of you
Love Laura
WISHING YOU A HAPPY NEW YEAR
I just wanted to say THANK YOU
In a special kind of way
For all the messages and thoughts
You share with me each day
I've tried to think of all the things
That say how much I care
And so I'm sending special hugs
For all of you to share
So I'm sending you this message
It's what I want to do
To say how much I really care
For every one of you.
☆ All My love to you And your Angel ☆
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☆ All My Love As Always Liz, Stuart Maxwell’s mum ☆
The Year before Last
by Unknown
The holiday season is approaching,
and with it comes the New Year.
Although for me time passes slowly,
New Year's Day will ring in quickly.
I dread this New Year's Day
because they will look at me
in a terribly strange way
when I get misty-eyed,
and talk about something you had done.
After you first left me,
they reasoned when I cried,
"He's only been gone a few months."
And I would catch that look of
understanding in their eyes,
and found some comfort that they knew.
But on last New Year's Day,
my first thought upon awakening was,
Oh God, my son died last year,
not just a few months ago, not even this year,
but last year.
He will never live in this year.
They didn't understand, they didn't reason,
that last year, for me, the loss was still new.
They thought, "It happened last year,
so long ago, why she still cries?"
I could see it in their eyes.
This New Year's Day, will it be different?
Will my first thought upon awakening be,
Oh God, my son died the year before last,
not a few months ago, not this year or even last year,
but the year before last?
He will never live in this year.
Will they even listen, should I not look them
in the eyes, for fear that I shall see,
"Why is she still crying? It happened so long ago.
It was the year before last."
Those words that we use
to describe the passage of time,
a few months, this year,
last year, the year before last.
They don't know that time stands still for me.
Will they understand that's why I cry?
Don't they know
my son just died ...
the year before last?
Thank you for all your support this year. Wishing you, your family and Cade a peaceful 2009. Love from Liz Stuart Maxwell's mum x
HAPPY NEW YEAR 2009 TO YOU AND YOUR ANGEL XXX
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LOVE ALWAYS ELAINE AND MY ANGELS XXX
WRITTEN BY LINDA SAWICKI - HUTT.XXX
YOU WERE MY SUNSHINE ON A WINTER DAY
WHEN I WAS LOST YOU LIT MY WAY
I PRAY I'LL BE WITH YOU AGAIN
TO END MY GRIEF AND HEEL MY PAIN
ITS NOT THE SAME WITHOUT YOU HERE
YOUR PICTURES I CANT HELP BUT STARE
SO DEAR IS WHAT YOU ARE TO ME
INSIDE MY HEART YOU'LL ALWAYS BE
YOUR FACE I SEE THROUGH TEARFUL EYES
MY SMILE IS JUST MY BRAVE DISGUISE
BUT NO ONE CRIES IN HEAVEN ABOVE
THERE IS NO PAIN THERE'S ONLY LOVE
A PURE WHITE DOVE SENDS ME YOUR PEACE
TO HELP ME COPE AND FEEL AT EASE
AND PLEASE GOD ANSWER JUST ONE PREAYER
TAKE CARE OF MY LOSS SO DEAR.
A Candlelight Glows In Memory...
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A candlelight glows in memory,
Of the love we still hold.
A life that touched so many,
Treasured gifts as memories unfold.
Our eyes well up with tears,
As we try to be strong.
Yet throughout our remaining years,
For their love we will long.
If we could just remember,
The Lord reaches out His hand.
He'll walk with us forever-
Help our hearts to understand.
Trusting Him to take our sorrow,
Faith He will see us through.
Will guide us towards tomorrow,
Filled with His blessings too.
So honor your precious loved one,
With the candlelight a glow.
Knowing your healing has begun,
As your teardrops gently flow.
Wishing you a peaceful New Year. Love from Liz Stuart Maxwell's mum x
merry christmas angel
wishing you a very merry christmas. hope you have had a lovely day up there in heaven with all your angel friends and hope you got loads of special angel pressies. sending loads of christmas kisses, hugs and love xxxxxxxxxxxx
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Thinking of you
Makes the miles disappear,
Together we're looking at bright decorations,
Enjoying what we like to do,
Thinking of you makes the miles disappear~
For you're missed very much
All year through…
So just because you're
Far away, don't think
For a moment that you're forgotten.
I'm thinking about you because loving thoughts travel far,
And wishing you a very Merry Christmas and a New Year
Full of wonderful things
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hello everyone just wanted to wish you alla very merry christmas hope you are all having a lovely day. i know thats hard when you miss a loved one so much but i know your beautiful angel will be looking down on you willing you to have a merry christmas and a happy new year just like i wish for you xxxxxxxx
'Tis Christmas in Heaven
What a beautiful sight!
It's wonderful here;
Everything is all right.
The crib is adorned
With the brilliance of stars,
Wisemen have come
From Venus and Mars.
I've met all our dear ones
Who preceded us here;
The reunion was lovely,
An event full of cheer.
And tonight we'll all gather,
In reverence we'll kneel,
For the Babe in the cradle
Up in Heaven is Real.
I think of my family
that I left behind
And I pray that your Christmas
Is as blessed as mine
Please shed no more tears,
For my soul is at rest,
Just love one another;
Live life to its best.
Yes, It's Christmas In Heaven,
So I've heard them say,
Yet, Christmas In Heaven
Happens every day.
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WITH LOVE AT CHRISTMAS
This
Xmas,
I would
like to put
up a tree in my
heart, and instead
of hanging presents,
I would like to put the
names of all my friends.
Close friends and not so close
friends. The old friends, the new
friends. Those that I see every day
and the ones that I rarely see. The ones
that I always remember and the ones that
I sometimes forget. The ones that are always
there and the ones that seldom are. The friends of
difficult times and the ones of happy times. Friends
who, without meaning to, I have hurt, or without meaning
to have hurt me. Those that I know well and those I only know
by name. Those that owe me little and those that I owe so much.
My humble friends and my important friends. The names of all those
that have passed through my life no matter how fleetingly. A tree with
very deep roots and very long
and strong branches so that
their names may never be
plucked from my heart. So
that new names from all
over may join the existing ones. A tree with a very
pleasant shade so that our friendship may take a
moment of rest from the battles of life. "May the
happy moments of Xmas brighten every day of
the new year". These are my sincere wishes.
love always paula(kayden gelders mummy)
MERRY CHRISTMAS MY GTS FRIEND XXXXXX
I'd like to say a big THANK YOU for all your support during 2008 for me and my little princess niece demi-leigh and my mum and dad. All the lovely candles, verses and beautiful pictures have meant so much to me.
I wish you all the best for 2009 and send you and your angels all my love xxxxxxx
ELAINE XXXX
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MERRY CHRISTMAS ANGELS
A Christmas Wish
How very much you're missed
Isn't easy to explain
For, words never could convey
The sadness and the pain.
Although gone now from this life
You've left memories to treasure
That are the sweetest kind
And will softly stay forever.
At Christmastime especially
You're missed throughout each day
And all those lovely memories
Are with us, here to stay
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LOVE ALWAYS ELAINE XXXXXXXX
Everybody's rushing around
Full of festive cheer,
But we’re finding all we want to do
At Christmas, is come here...
To talk to you a little while-
And bring a flower or two,
We can't buy you a present,
So what else can we do?
Remember that we love you
We’re' still hurting with the pain,
We don’t think it will ever stop
Till we’re with you once again...
Dear Cade...
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I really want to tell you
Although, I’m sure that you can see,
Mums every thought of you is as loving as can be
Her heart is totally filled with things
That word’s alone can't say,
And you will be especially thought of
With love on Christmas Day.
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God Bless you precious angel.
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