| Location | Penzance |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 29/10/2007 |
| Date of Death | 29/10/2007 |
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BABY CADE CLEMENCE
BORN SLEEPING 29 OCTOBER 2007
MUMMY = LEE-ANNE DADDY = NEIL BIG BROTHER = CODY
NANA = JOY AND ( ANGEL ) GRANDMA = SANDRA
TINY BABY CADE SPREAD YOUR WINGS
AND FLY UP HIGH WHERE ANGELS SING.
LET THEM CARE FOR YOU
WITH ENDLESS LOVE,
KEEP WATCH OVER US FROM UP ABOVE.
WATCH OVER MUMMY AND DADDY CODY AND NANA TOO
BECAUSE EACH OF US ARE HURTING FROM LOSING YOU.
LET US KNOW THAT YOU ARE THERE
LOVING US DEEPLY AND WATCHING WITH CARE.XX
Our time was far too brief;
It was over before it had chance to start...
But our little angel left behind
Footprints Across our Heart.
Our beautiful baby boy was born at home on monday 29th oct 2007 after a weekend from hell. Cade was our second son and after our precious son cody was born premature at 29 weeks weighing just 2lb 9oz and born with a number of ongoing health problems we were promised constant care and monitoring with cades pregnancy. Something that we sadly never recieved. All the scans went well and his little heartbeat was strong.
Then came saturday the 27th oct : I woke up early went to the toilet and started to bleed, so neil rang the emergency midwife team and explained we were told NOT to panick just for me to have complete bed rest for the rest of the day and they would phone the hospital and book an emergency scan. As the day progressed the bleeding stopped but the pain increased. After several telephone conversations with our midwife (fiona) i was told to stop panicking and just keep to bed rest. I was so scared i was to scared to move, to afraid to go to the toilet incase the bleeding started again all i could do was cry. Saturday was a long day.
On the sunday i still had some light spotting and the pain in my back and stomach had increased. We rang the emergency team again and was told that an appointment had been made to have a scan done on the tues morning at the hospital. We argued that tues was to long away to wait but was told there was nothing they could do at the weekend and first thing monday i would be examined by my midwife and if needed i would then be taken in. We weren't happy but there the professionals so who are we to argue! Oh god i wish we'de argued!! All day sunday i was in discomfort like having bad period pains the midwife said the most likely cause was wind. I never experienced labour with cody as he was delivered by emergency c-section so i just assumed i was being a wimp and felt so guilty that i was causing such a fuss over possible wind. So all day sunday i just grinned and beared it.
Then came Monday the worst day ever....
The midwife was due to visit at 9.00am to examine me but by 10.00 am still hadn't arrived so several messages later she rings us to say she was running late and would be with us by 11.00 am. We waited anxiously and the pains by now were getting worse and seemed more frequent. By lunch time she still hadn't arrived and after ringing the surgery and complaining we rang the hospital only to be told to calm down and wait for her to call. She finally turned up at 4.30 pm. 7 1/2 hours after she promised to examine me.
She examined me and told me i was fine she repeated that my pain was caused by wind and examined cade and said he was fine heartbeat good and he was moving. She said it was upto us whether to keep the scan appointment the following morning which we said we wanted to just to see him and confirm he was alright. She said all i needed to do was take 2 painkillers, a nice hot cup of tea and a warm bath. She took neil to one side and said to keep me relaxed the scan would confirm what she had said and i was panicking over nothing. She sent neil off to run me a bath i took 2 paracetamol and she left. JOB DONE. I again felt like an idiot for wasting peoples time. And made apologies for behaving like a wimp.
I then decided to have the bath. Wrong Decision..
I had only been in the bath a few minutes when the pain was to much to bear i called for neil and he helped me out. It felt like i needed to empty my bowels. All of a sudden i was curled over the pain so bad and it was as though someone had popped a water balloon inbetween my legs i thought i'd wet myself i still didn't know what was happening. Then there was a huge tugging sensation like as if someone was pulling my insides and there he was our beautiful son on the bathroom floor. I screamed hysterically. Neil just kept saying my god its our baby lee he's not doing anything. I fell to the floor and everything was pretty blurred after that. I can vaguely remember the paramedics arriving. And i remember them wrapping baby cade in a blanket and placing him in my arms.
He stayed in my arms in the ambulance and we were given a private room when we arrived we spent a short time with him when we arrived then they took him off to be examined, cleaned and dressed. Whilst i was treated and given an injection to make me deliver the placenta. Then he was given back to us and we spent a couple of hours just the three of us. We hugged him and kissed him and told him all about his family.
When the doctors walked in to take him for his final examination we were told we wouldn't be able to see him again after they examined. He would be taken straight to the morgue. So many thoughts swamped my mind. I couldn't hand him over. How could i knowing that would be the last time i saw him. Neil had to hand him to them. I could literally feel my heart break. We were offered a photo of cade but because of the heat of the bathroom and then the ambulance and hospital air he had changed colour and didn't look like he did at home. Neil and i discussed it but wanted to remember him how he looked in our arms not how he looked at the end of it. I was given medication after they took him so was too doped up to remember the rest of that night.
Baby cade was buried on nov 14th 2007 he had a wonderful send off with family and close friends present. He had beautiful flowers and was blessed by the priest at the church. He had a tiny white coffin which neil carried and was laid to rest with his grandma sandra (my mum). So we know he is safe.
I never understood the saying " a broken heart " but mine has been broken twice once by my mum and now my baby boy.
Thank you for taking the time to read our heartache and for your continued support it has given me the strength to share this with you.
Your candles, tributes and pictures mean so much to us as a family.
XXXXXXXXXX THANK YOU ALL XXXXXXXXXX
I SENT YOU A FEATHER.......
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I SENT ONE OF MY SOFT FEATHERS FLOATING TO THE GROUND
JUST TO LET YOU KNOW THAT I WAS STILL AROUND
I HOPE YOU FOUND IT BECAUSE IT WAS A GIFT FROM ME
I SENT THE FEATHER DOWN SO THAT YOU COULD SEE
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THAT MY SPIRIT IS AWAYS WITH YOU I AM NEVER FAR AWAY
ALSO TO SEND A LITTLE COMFORT TO YOU TODAY
I CAN SPREAD MY WINGS AND I CAN FLY
JUST LIKE THE GOLDEN EAGLE IN THE SKY
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DO NOT WORRY I AM RIGHT BY YOUR SIDE
I WILL FOREVER BE YOUR ANGEL GUIDE
WHEN THE TIME COMES IT SHALL BE ME THAT TAKES YOUR HAND
TOGETHER WE SHALL BOTH FLY FREE IN THE PROMISED LAND
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copyright© Rosalind Roberts 28/10/2010
♥MERRY CHRISTMAS ANGEL♥
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merry christmas
I see the countless Christmas trees
around the world below
With tiny lights, like Heaven's stars,
reflecting on the snow
The sight is so spectacular,
please wipe away the tear
For I am spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs
that people hold so dear
But the sounds of music can't compare
with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you,
the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description,
to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me,
I see the pain inside your heart.
But I am not so far away,
We really aren't apart.
So be happy for me, dear ones,
You know I hold you dear.
And be glad I'm spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year.
I sent you each a special gift,
from my heavenly home above.
I sent you each a memory
of my undying love.
After all, love is a gift
more precious than pure gold.
was always most important
the stories Jesus told.
Please love and keep each other,
my Father said to do.
I can't count the blessing or love
has for each of you.
So have a Merry Christmas
and Wipe away that tear
Remember, I am spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year
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I see the countless Christmas trees
Around the world below.
With tiny lights like heavens stars
reflecting on the snow,
the sight is so spectacular
please wipe away your tears
for i am sharing Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year
I hear the many Christmas songs
that people hold so dear
but the sounds of music can't compare
with the Christmas choir here.
I have no words to tell your
the joy their voices bring
Its far beyond description
to hear the angels sing
I know how much you miss me
i see the pain within your heart
but i am not so far away
We really aren't apart
So be happy for me loved ones
you know i hold you dear
and be glad I'm spending Christmas
with Jesus Christ this year
After all `love` is the gift
more precious than pure gold
It was always more important
in the stories Jesus told
Please love and keep each other
as my Father said to do
For i can't count the blessings
or the love he has for you
So have a gentle Christmas
and wipe away those tears
for i am spending Christmas
with the Lord this year.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BABY CADE
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Birthday Remembrance
Thinking of you on your birthday Cade
But that is nothing new
For no day dawns and no day ends
Without a thought of you.
We cannot send a birthday card,
Your hand we cannot touch,
But God will take our greetings
To the one we love so much.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY CADE
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bigs hugs from me to you and your family
and friends that you miss you ever day but
in our hearts forever you will not be forgotin
all my love hugs and xxxx from me Sylvie
mommy of Samantha Belanger and
Granddaughter of Albert and Marie-Jeanne
Belanger take care bye for now.
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**ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ*THOSE WE LOVE **ღ**ღ**ღ**ღ
BIG HUGS BABY CADE
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⋱♰⋰ Angel Day ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Your Angel Day in Heaven ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Many tears will fall for you ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ You touched so many loving hearts ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ There’s so many missing you ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ As you now live in paradise ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Its Heaven up above stay ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Close to all your loved ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ ones For it’s you they ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ miss and love ⋱♰⋰
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⋱♰⋰ family and friends that you miss you ever day ⋱♰⋰
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⋱♰⋰ forgoten you take care love from me ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Sylvie mommy of Samantha ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Belanger hugs and XXXX ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ bye for now good ⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ night ⋱♰⋰
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....Goodnight and God Bless..........
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♥ ♥ ♥ Angel Day bigs hugs from me to you and your family and friends that you miss you ever day but in our hearts forever take care love you bye for now hugs love from me.♥ ♥ ♥
hello special angel so sorry not been on for ages i use to find it helped coming on and writing messages to you all but now i really struggle and get so upset thinking about all the wonderful angels up in the sky that should be down here on earth and from there i don't know what else to say because i don't want to put negative things so i hope you are all having a whale of a time up there. sending my love always to you all xxxxxx
to your family i know i don't get on very often but you are always in my hearts and thoughts sending my love always xxxxxxxxxxxxx
~~ Guardian Angels ~~
When angels sense you need them
and angels always do.....
they come unseen from everywhere
to help and comfort you
they hover close beside you
till all your cares are gone
till they can see you're ready
once again to carry on
Then some of them may fly away
and take their gentle touch
to other hearts that need
the love of angels very much
but one at least stays with you
as your constant friend and guide
for guardian angels never leave
they're always at your side
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God needed an angel in heaven
When Jesus lived upon the earth so many years ago,
He called the children close to him because he loved them so.....
And with that tenderness of old, that same sweet, gentle way,
He holds your little loved one close within his arms today.....
And you’ll find comfort in your faith that in his home above
The God of little children gives your little one his love....
So think of you little darling lighthearted and happy and free
Playing in God’s promised land where there is joy eternally.
Helen Steiner Rice
The tiny rosebud God picked to bloom in Heaven.
The master gardener from heaven above
Planted a seed in the garden of Love,
And from it there grew a rosebud small
That never had time to open at all.
For God in his perfect and all-wise way
Chose this rose for his heavenly bouquet,
And great was the joy of this tiny rose
To be the one our Father chose
To leave earth’s garden
For one on high
where roses bloom always and never die.
So, while you can’t see your precious rose bloom,
You know the great gardener from the upper room
Is watching and tending this wee rose with care,
Tenderly touching each petal so fair.
So think of your darling with the angels above,
Secure and contented and surrounded with love,
And remember God blessed and enriched your lives too,
For in dying your darling brought heaven closer to you.
Helen Steiner Rice
special angel
im so sorry i have not been on for such a long time i find it so hard to get time to come on the computer but please remember i am always thinking about you and your family and i am always sending my love xxxxxxxxx
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⋱♰⋰ For someone very Special, a Candle full of Love .
Sent from Me to You, to Heaven up Above ⋱♰⋰
Nite God bless you precious Angel⋱♰⋰
⋱♰⋰ Sweet Dreamsxxx
Try To Imagine
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Try to imagine what its like
When i see you all below
I miss you all so much
This you surely know
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Try to imagine my pain
When i see those tears you cry
If only you knew the beauty
Of my home up in the sky
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Try to imagine the day
When we will all be together
God calls us all back
And we will be apart not ever.
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Written By Jayne Roddy
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