| Location | Penzance |
| Age | 0 |
| Cause of Death | Still Birth |
| Date of Birth | 29/10/2007 |
| Date of Death | 29/10/2007 |
| Visitors | 7,560 since 31/01/2008 |
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BABY CADE CLEMENCE
BORN SLEEPING 29 OCTOBER 2007
MUMMY = LEE-ANNE DADDY = NEIL BIG BROTHER = CODY
NANA = JOY AND ( ANGEL ) GRANDMA = SANDRA
TINY BABY CADE SPREAD YOUR WINGS
AND FLY UP HIGH WHERE ANGELS SING.
LET THEM CARE FOR YOU
WITH ENDLESS LOVE,
KEEP WATCH OVER US FROM UP ABOVE.
WATCH OVER MUMMY AND DADDY CODY AND NANA TOO
BECAUSE EACH OF US ARE HURTING FROM LOSING YOU.
LET US KNOW THAT YOU ARE THERE
LOVING US DEEPLY AND WATCHING WITH CARE.XX
Our time was far too brief;
It was over before it had chance to start...
But our little angel left behind
Footprints Across our Heart.
Our beautiful baby boy was born at home on monday 29th oct 2007 after a weekend from hell. Cade was
our second son and after our precious son cody was born premature at 29 weeks weighing just 2lb 9oz
and born with a number of ongoing health problems we were promised constant care and monitoring with
cades pregnancy. Something that we sadly never recieved. All the scans went well and his little
heartbeat was strong.
Then came saturday the 27th oct : I woke up early went to the toilet and started to bleed, so neil
rang the emergency midwife team and explained we were told NOT to panick just for me to have
complete bed rest for the rest of the day and they would phone the hospital and book an emergency
scan. As the day progressed the bleeding stopped but the pain increased. After several telephone
conversations with our midwife (fiona) i was told to stop panicking and just keep to bed rest. I was
so scared i was to scared to move, to afraid to go to the toilet incase the bleeding started again
all i could do was cry. Saturday was a long day.
On the sunday i still had some light spotting and the pain in my back and stomach had increased. We
rang the emergency team again and was told that an appointment had been made to have a scan done on
the tues morning at the hospital. We argued that tues was to long away to wait but was told there
was nothing they could do at the weekend and first thing monday i would be examined by my midwife
and if needed i would then be taken in. We weren't happy but there the professionals so who are we
to argue! Oh god i wish we'de argued!! All day sunday i was in discomfort like having bad period
pains the midwife said the most likely cause was wind. I never experienced labour with cody as he
was delivered by emergency c-section so i just assumed i was being a wimp and felt so guilty that i
was causing such a fuss over possible wind. So all day sunday i just grinned and beared it.
Then came Monday the worst day ever....
The midwife was due to visit at 9.00am to examine me but by 10.00 am still hadn't arrived so several
messages later she rings us to say she was running late and would be with us by 11.00 am. We waited
anxiously and the pains by now were getting worse and seemed more frequent. By lunch time she still
hadn't arrived and after ringing the surgery and complaining we rang the hospital only to be told to
calm down and wait for her to call. She finally turned up at 4.30 pm. 7 1/2 hours after she promised
to examine me.
She examined me and told me i was fine she repeated that my pain was caused by wind and examined
cade and said he was fine heartbeat good and he was moving. She said it was upto us whether to keep
the scan appointment the following morning which we said we wanted to just to see him and confirm he
was alright. She said all i needed to do was take 2 painkillers, a nice hot cup of tea and a warm
bath. She took neil to one side and said to keep me relaxed the scan would confirm what she had said
and i was panicking over nothing. She sent neil off to run me a bath i took 2 paracetamol and she
left. JOB DONE. I again felt like an idiot for wasting peoples time. And made apologies for behaving
like a wimp.
I then decided to have the bath. Wrong Decision..
I had only been in the bath a few minutes when the pain was to much to bear i called for neil and he
helped me out. It felt like i needed to empty my bowels. All of a sudden i was curled over the pain
so bad and it was as though someone had popped a water balloon inbetween my legs i thought i'd wet
myself i still didn't know what was happening. Then there was a huge tugging sensation like as if
someone was pulling my insides and there he was our beautiful son on the bathroom floor. I screamed
hysterically. Neil just kept saying my god its our baby lee he's not doing anything. I fell to the
floor and everything was pretty blurred after that. I can vaguely remember the paramedics arriving.
And i remember them wrapping baby cade in a blanket and placing him in my arms.
He stayed in my arms in the ambulance and we were given a private room when we arrived we spent a
short time with him when we arrived then they took him off to be examined, cleaned and dressed.
Whilst i was treated and given an injection to make me deliver the placenta. Then he was given back
to us and we spent a couple of hours just the three of us. We hugged him and kissed him and told him
all about his family.
When the doctors walked in to take him for his final examination we were told we wouldn't be able to
see him again after they examined. He would be taken straight to the morgue. So many thoughts
swamped my mind. I couldn't hand him over. How could i knowing that would be the last time i saw
him. Neil had to hand him to them. I could literally feel my heart break. We were offered a photo of
cade but because of the heat of the bathroom and then the ambulance and hospital air he had changed
colour and didn't look like he did at home. Neil and i discussed it but wanted to remember him how
he looked in our arms not how he looked at the end of it. I was given medication after they took him
so was too doped up to remember the rest of that night.
Baby cade was buried on nov 14th 2007 he had a wonderful send off with family and close friends
present. He had beautiful flowers and was blessed by the priest at the church. He had a tiny white
coffin which neil carried and was laid to rest with his grandma sandra (my mum). So we know he is
safe.
I never understood the saying " a broken heart " but mine has been broken twice once by my mum and
now my baby boy.
Thank you for taking the time to read our heartache and for your continued support it has given me
the strength to share this with you.
Your candles, tributes and pictures mean so much to us as a family.
XXXXXXXXXX THANK YOU ALL XXXXXXXXXX
♦♥♦ Cherished Memories ♦♥♦
Sometimes it's hard to understand
To see the reason why,
Sometimes it's hard to find the words
To say that last goodbye.
Sometimes it's hard to look ahead
With eyes still filled with tears,
But all our cherished memories
Will live on through the years.
And though there are no answers
The questions still remain,
Sometimes we just can't comprehend
Or understand the pain.
Sometimes it's hard to look beyond
The rainclouds in the sky,
Though all our cherished memories
Will stay as time goes by.
Sometimes when we close our eyes
The only thing we see,
Are moments that are long gone by
Of how things used to be.
Sometimes we need to just let go,
Let tears fall as they may,
Reliving cherished memories
That never fade away.
(Author unknown)
so sorry beautiful angel that i have not been on in such a long time but i always think about the beautiful angels up there with my kayden and hope you are all having lots of fun. we send our love to you always and to your wonderful family our thoughts are with them always xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
ALWAYS IN MIND
⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰
Time has stood still for those who love you,
the grief is still fresh, their hearts are still blue.
Memories can ease pain but they never can fill,
the space that is left when they think of you still.
So stay near to those who miss you each day,
for they carry a sadness since you went away.
Send the strength to cope where others have tried,
and some love for their hearts that hurt deep inside.
⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰ ⊱♥⊰
a special thank you to all your family who have visited kaydens site and left messages i can't thank you enough xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Mother & Son
We are connected my child and I
By an invisible cord not seen by the eye
It's not like the cord that connects you at birth
This cord can't be seen by any on earth
This cord does it work, right from the start
It binds us together, attached to my heart
I know that it's there, though no one can see
This invisible cord from my child to me
The strength of this cord is hard to describe
It can't be destroyed, it can't be denied
Its stronger than any cord man could create
It withstands the test, can hold any weight
And though you are gone, though you're not here with me
The cord is still there but no one can see
It pulls at my heart, I am bruised ~ I am sore
But this cord is my lifeline as never before
I am thankful that God connects us this way
A mother and child death can't take away
In my thoughts and prayers. Love Liz, Stuart's mum xx
When you are lonely,
I wish you love.
When you are down,
I wish you joy.
When you are troubled,
I wish you peace.
When things are complicated,
I wish you simple beauty.
When things are chaotic,
I wish you inner silence.
When things are empty,
I wish you hope.
When you need your Angel,
I wish you faith...to know they are with you...always.
All my love Liz, Stuart Maxwell's mum xx
For all my GTS friends
Hi, Lee-anne has asked me to thank you all for your support while she has been unable to light candles for all your angels ,but at the moment she has no internet connection ,but would like to let you all know that you and your angels are in her thoughts love Shirley (Family friend )xx
I stood by your bed last night;
I came to have a peep.
I could see that you were crying you found it hard to sleep.
I spoke to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
'It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here.'
I was close to you at breakfast,
I watched you pour the tea,
You were thinking of the many times, your hands reached to me.
I was with you at the shops today; your arms were getting sore.
I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today; you tend it with such care.
I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.
I flew with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
I gently landed on you; I smiled and said, 'it's me.'
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair. I tried so hard to let you know, that I was there.
It's possible for me, to be so near you everyday.
To say to you with certainty, 'I never went away.'
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...
in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning and say 'good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning.'
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I'll fly across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you,
there is so much for you to see.
Be patient, live your journey out...
then come home to be with me.
- Author unknown
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hello angel
hello special angel so sorry it's been such a long time since ive left a poem the last couple of month as been really hectic with my little girl now been 6 weeks i don't seem to have a lot of time to do anything. i hope you've been having lots of fun up there i bet you had a fab easter. sending my love always xxxx
hello everyone hope you are all ok thought you would like this poem. sending my love always
Hello From Heaven
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It's me again from Heaven
With a message from above
Feel my spirit all around you
As I sprinkle you with love...
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I have watched you, as your tears flow
I have heard your silent screams
I know you sleep with visions
Of me visiting your dreams...
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I have come and sat beside you
Placed my hands upon your face
Wiped away the many teardrops
I so wish I could erase...
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I have watched you every day now
Seen such pain within your eyes
I just wish that there were some way
I could help you realize...
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I am happy up in Heaven
In this peaceful loving place
Where I will be here waiting
To welcome you with my embrace...
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You will join me here in Heaven
When your time comes you’ll see
Leave your Earthly cares behind you
Travel on to where you’re free...
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I have heard you ask to go now
But there is more for you to do
I promise I'll be waiting
When your time on earth is through ...
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Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰
Happy Easter Sweeheart
The tiny bunny
Is working all day long
Decorating Easter eggs
While humming a song
He is having so much fun
Making eggs for you and me
And small chocolate bunnies
That he gives away free
But when he is finished
He'll bring them your way
In a big coloured basket
Upon Easter day
Sending lots of floaty kisses your way xxxxx * . * * . * * . * * . * * . *
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰
This special Easter wish
That comes with love to you
Brings warm and heartfelt thanks
For all the thoughtful things you do--
It also comes to let you know
You mean so much more each day
To everyone your lives have touched
In such a loving way.
Happy Easter, Carole, with love xxx
Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ⋱♰⋰
♦♥♦ Cherished Memories ♦♥♦
•:*:• ♥ •:*:••:*:• ♥ •:*:••:*:• ♥
Sometimes it's hard to understand
To see the reason why,
Sometimes it's hard to find the words
To say that last goodbye.
Sometimes it's hard to look ahead
With eyes still filled with tears,
But all our cherished memories
Will live on through the years.
And though there are no answers
The questions still remain,
Sometimes we just can't comprehend
Or understand the pain.
Sometimes it's hard to look beyond
The rainclouds in the sky,
Though all our cherished memories
Will stay as time goes by.
Sometimes when we close our eyes
The only thing we see,
Are moments that are long gone by
Of how things used to be.
Sometimes we need to just let go,
Let tears fall as they may,
Reliving cherished memories
That never fade away.
(Author unknown)
•:*:• ♥ •:*:••:*:• ♥ •:*:••:*:• ♥
THANK YOU FOR ALL YOUR SUPPORT FOR ME AND MY ANGELS.
LOVE ALWAYS ELAINE XXXXXXXX
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YOUR SPECIAL ANGEL
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When you hear an Angel softly whisper to you,
In the light of the day, or the darkness of the night.
When you feel the presence of an Angel caress you,
And see their beautiful wings spread in graceful flight.
When something inside you just makes you smile,
Or you feel a warmth suddenly wash over your heart.
When your dreams are beautiful and include an Angel,
As you lay with your head on your pillow, in the dark.
When you're alone, and everything is quiet around you,
Yet you can hear the sweetest lullaby being sung.
When waking up in the morning, any troubles feel lighter,
From speaking with an Angel, before a new day has begun.
Then you know I am the Angel who you can feel and hear;
Your special Angel from Heaven who will always be so near.
I'm no longer able to be here in body, but I'm with you everyday,
As my loving heart, my soul, and my spirit, will never be far away.
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Love Always Elaine xxxxxx
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